25 sept. 2023 · News PRISON WEDDING Who is Erik Menendez’s wife Tammi Menendez? Sarah Grealish Published: 7:52, 25 Sep 2023 ERIK Menendez and older brother Lyle are serving life sentences for the. In her 2005 memoir They Said We’d Never Make It: My Life With Erik Menendez, Tammi described her deeply strained marriage with Erik — who was convicted of a double life sentence without parole.